If there is one thing I’ve learned in over two decades in this industry—from the early startup days to the halls of Google—it’s that we are human beings first, and engineers second.
Often, we’re taught to prioritize logic above all else, leaving very little room for the messy, beautiful, and sometimes overwhelming reality of our emotions. I’ve lived through those moments where the weight of a project feels like it’s sitting right on your chest, and I’ve navigated the quiet, isolating fear that I might not actually belong in the room.
I created this space because I want you to know that you don’t have to carry that weight alone. My coaching is built on radical empathy and the belief that your well-being is the foundation of your success, not a distraction from it.
This page serves as a home for the resources, stories, and pathways we can explore together to help you feel grounded, confident, and truly at peace in your career.
How We Can Care for Your Mental Well-being
My approach is collaborative and kind. We don’t just look at your career trajectory; we look at how you’re feeling as you walk the path. Here are the core areas where I provide support:
1. Finding Your Voice (and Coexisting with the Critic)
Imposter syndrome thrives in the dark. We bring it into the light together, using gentle frameworks to recognize that “inner critic” for what it is—a protector that has overstayed its welcome. We’ll work on helping you own your achievements with genuine warmth and pride.
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2. Cultivating Daily Resiliency
The pressure of tech can feel like a constant tide. I help you find your “anchor” through mindfulness and personalized self-care practices. These aren’t just “to-do” items; they are moments of stillness that help you stay centered when the world around you feels chaotic.
3. Moving Through Burnout with Compassion
If you’re feeling exhausted or “frozen,” the last thing you need is more pressure. I provide a confidential, soft place to land where you can be honest about your fatigue. Together, we’ll slowly rediscover what brings you joy and how to set boundaries that protect your energy.
4. The Human Side of Leadership
Moving into leadership is a profound emotional shift. I support you in navigating the vulnerability of being responsible for others while still caring for yourself. We focus on how to lead with a full heart, ensuring your impact is sustainable and your team feels as supported as you do.
You Don’t Have to Walk This Path Alone
Whether you are facing a specific crisis of confidence or just feel like you’ve lost your spark, I am here to listen and walk alongside you. Let’s focus on your humanity first.
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I've spent over 25 years navigating the software engineering landscape—scaling teams, fostering well-being, and mentoring the next generation of technical leaders. After 6.5 years at Google, I built a coaching practice to help talented engineers and techies unlock their potential and build the momentum that transforms careers. I'm the coach who meets you at your pivotal moments and helps you make the most of them.